If you’ve seen the news this past month, you’re likely feeling impacted by the losses we’ve experienced to our community. Cecilia Gentili was a legend in the transgender community who fought for the rights of sex workers and incarcerated trans people, as an immigrant with past experience and trauma in both arenas. We’ve also lost a beautiful young light in Nex Benedict, a trans and indigenous 16 year old who died after being physically assaulted by three classmates in the bathroom of their high school. Holding space for all of this can be difficult to do alone.

This month we want to remember that our community, our chosen family, is the space for us to find comfort, support and a smile in trying times. It is through this unity that we find our most powerful response to adversity: collective and infectious joy, or as one of our Aging with Pride group members called it, “a shot to the arm that gets me through.”

Reach out to the folks you love and do something. Talk through the present issues and inject hope into future plans. Join one of our regular groups or set up a call to discuss counseling. Get together and remember that while it can be a disappointment to have to “find family,” it is also a blessing to have the family that you choose; the family that chooses you.

Nathaniel Gray
Executive Director
Pride Center of the Capital Region


Community is the answer.

HONORING LIVES, ADVOCATING FOR CHANGE

We would be remiss not to mention the two bright lights that we’ve lost in our family this past month. It is important that we remember and reflect on the lives of Cecilia Gentili and Nex Benedict. Their stories, marked by courage and tragedy, remind us of the urgent need for community solidarity and action. 

Cecilia's legacy as a beacon of hope for the trans community and advocate for the rights and protections of transgender people, and the heartbreaking loss of Nex, a child who faced bullying to the point of violence like so many of us have, compel us to stand together against hatred to demand a better future. 


We pay tribute to their memories but also call on the local queer and allied community to support one another and fight for a world where every LGBTQ+ individual can live authentically and safely. Through education, advocacy, and coming together as a chosen family, we keep their memory and advocacy alive and manifest the future they deserved.

If you need to reach out, please do. At the bottom of this email you can find information about our mental health program, as well as a calendar of events and groups for March. You’ll also find our social media pages, please follow to see the most up-to-date info about our events. Community is the Answer!

SAGE STATE OF LGBTQ+ AGING SURVEY

SAGE’s Center of Excellence has partnered with the University of Nevada, Las Vegas to conduct the “State of LGBTQ+ Aging Survey.” The survey seeks to better understand the current experiences, needs, and resiliencies of older people in the U.S. who identify as LGBTQ+ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, asexual, Two-Spirit, or related identities). The survey is now open to LGBTQ+ adults 50 years old and older. It takes 30 to 45 minutes and can be conducted online or over the phone. 

click for more into & to take the survey

Let us learn from this mutual exchange of wisdom and experience that we all have valuable insights to contribute to our collective narrative, regardless of age.

This month we want to highlight an important inter-generational conversation that took place at a recent Aging with Pride group. We had a few younger LGBTQ+ voices in the room to discuss the difference between the experiences and support felt by each age group and to find areas of mutual understanding and supportive steps forward.

The discussion opened with candid reflections on the challenges of intergenerational understanding. One speaker voiced frustrations about younger generations' lack of awareness of the history of the fight for LGBTQ+ rights, as well as the AIDS crisis, while another stressed the need for open communication and mutual respect. We landed on the realization that without legislation to update the curriculum, there’s no way to ensure that younger generations learn about their own queer history.

Also discussed is the role of education and advocacy in empowering the queer community. Speakers shared their involvement in various capacities, from internships at the Pride Center to volunteering decades ago with Two Rivers, marching on Washington D.C. or in New York City for various causes, and how each of those environments gave them a boost of support by simply sharing space with many other LGBTQ+ folks, out and proud of who they are.

A poignant moment came when one participant underscored the importance of older generations listening to and learning from younger voices. Younger generations communicate all day through apps and texting, not by meeting up in-person. This can impact how they support each other and may be part of why the younger generations feel such a disconnect from older generations. Let us learn from this mutual exchange of wisdom and experience that we all have valuable insights to contribute to our collective narrative, regardless of age.

The conversation concluded with a series of actionable steps aimed at fostering closer ties within our community, including planning inter-generational events and expanding our support network. We are committed to creating a more inclusive, supportive, and united LGBTQ+ family that transcends generations.

Through open dialogue and shared experiences, the Aging with Pride discussion reaffirmed our belief that community is our strongest asset. As we move forward, let's carry these insights with us, embracing both the wisdom of our elders and the fresh perspectives of younger members. Together, we can build a more inclusive, understanding, and resilient community.

PRIDE ACROSS THE AGES: A CONVERSATION WITH THE AGING WITH PRIDE GROUP

FULL CALENDAR OF EVENTS

Parenting with Pride is a monthly group for parents/caregivers and their LGBTQ+ youth to gather for community and education in a safe and affirming space. This group welcomes parents/caregivers to bring their youth with them, leaving them to interact with the other youth in the group. Parents/caregivers will be in another room, sharing stories and experiences while gaining education and awareness. No registration is required.

Parenting with Pride Group, in affiliation with Berkshire Farm Center & Services for Youth, is back beginning March 11th!

TICKETS

Supporters of the Capital District Pride Center can use the button below to save $5 on tickets now!

Sunday March 10 • 7pm • The Linda • Albany

Broadway’s hunky gay ex-Mormon dad Claybourne Elder (Company, Sunday in the Park with George, Bonnie and Clyde, and HBO’s The Gilded Age) brings his sold-out touring concert to the Capital District for a very special night only show that show that is hilarious, heartfelt and surprisingly filthy.

The Ballroom 101 event will start with an introduction to the host and a presentation which will provide an overview of ballroom history & culture, followed by the viewing of Ballroom media selected by the host: Paris is Burning and Kiki.

 After the documentary films, participants will be able to ask the host any questions or inquiries they may have. The event will then end with a vogue workshop, where participants who are comfortable doing so, will learn a low impact choreography from the host, Marine, who is currently hosting their own Vogue Basics 101 group at The Albany Damien Center.

March 29 • 5pm • Pride Center

Did you know The Pride Center offers FREE mental health counseling and case management? Provided by LGBTQ+-affirming staff and interns, these essential services are open to all LGBTQ+ folks and allies, ages 10 and up.

Click HERE to find out more and make an appointment. 

FREE COUNSELING & CASE MANAGEMENT

SHARE YOUR FAVORITE RESOURCES

LGBTQ+ resources are not always easy to find in the Capital Region. Making sure that you are provided with safe, competent, and affirming services is something we strive for at The Pride Center. Do you have a physician you love? How about a business that always feels affirming or safe? Please share your LGBTQ+ affirming resources with us HERE!

THE PRIDE CENTER'S MONTHLY NEWSLETTER AND MONTHLY CALENDAR OF EVENTS ARE ALSO LINKED BELOW FOR ANYONE IN NEED OF PRINTING THE CONTENT. 

We encourage our fellow community service providers to print copies of the monthly newsletter and calendar to make available at resource tables and bookstands in their space.

PRINTABLE NEWSLETTER

PRINTABLE CALENDAR