If you’ve seen the news this past month, you’re likely feeling impacted by the losses we’ve experienced to our community. Cecilia Gentili was a legend in the transgender community who fought for the rights of sex workers and incarcerated trans people, as an immigrant with past experience and trauma in both arenas. We’ve also lost a beautiful young light in Nex Benedict, a trans and indigenous 16 year old who died after being physically assaulted by three classmates in the bathroom of their high school. Holding space for all of this can be difficult to do alone.
This month we want to remember that our community, our chosen family, is the space for us to find comfort, support and a smile in trying times. It is through this unity that we find our most powerful response to adversity: collective and infectious joy, or as one of our Aging with Pride group members called it, “a shot to the arm that gets me through.”
Reach out to the folks you love and do something. Talk through the present issues and inject hope into future plans. Join one of our regular groups or set up a call to discuss counseling. Get together and remember that while it can be a disappointment to have to “find family,” it is also a blessing to have the family that you choose; the family that chooses you.
Nathaniel Gray
Executive Director
Pride Center of the Capital Region
We're thrilled to announce Pride 2024 Parade and Festival registrations are open! Head over to 518capitalpride.com to see all the options and get signed up to march in the parade, put up a vendor tent, or put an ad in the 2024 Pride Guide. We also welcome sponsors, so please take a look at our sponsorship page if your organization or company is looking for ways to support our organization’s work with the LGBTQ+ community.
This year we celebrate Pride as a SEASON! Starting May 4th with the Transition Expo, leading to the Pride 5K and Paw-Rade on May 5th, Flag raising and Kickoff Party May 31st, then Pride Weekend starts Saturday June 8th with BIPOC Pride put on by In Our Own Voices, and then our annual Pride Parade and Festival on June 9th, ending the season with the Aging with Pride Cruise on August 24th! Join us for a series of events designed to embrace our community's diversity, resilience, and spirit from May to August and celebrate yourself all season long!
This month we want to highlight an important inter-generational conversation that took place at a recent Aging with Pride group. We had a few younger LGBTQ+ voices in the room to discuss the difference between the experiences and support felt by each age group and to find areas of mutual understanding and supportive steps forward.
The discussion opened with candid reflections on the challenges of intergenerational understanding. One speaker voiced frustrations about younger generations' lack of awareness of the history of the fight for LGBTQ+ rights, as well as the AIDS crisis, while another stressed the need for open communication and mutual respect. We landed on the realization that without legislation to update the curriculum, there’s no way to ensure that younger generations learn about their own queer history.
Also discussed is the role of education and advocacy in empowering the queer community. Speakers shared their involvement in various capacities, from internships at the Pride Center to volunteering decades ago with Two Rivers, marching on Washington D.C. or in New York City for various causes, and how each of those environments gave them a boost of support by simply sharing space with many other LGBTQ+ folks, out and proud of who they are.
A poignant moment came when one participant underscored the importance of older generations listening to and learning from younger voices. Younger generations communicate all day through apps and texting, not by meeting up in-person. This can impact how they support each other and may be part of why the younger generations feel such a disconnect from older generations. Let us learn from this mutual exchange of wisdom and experience that we all have valuable insights to contribute to our collective narrative, regardless of age.
The conversation concluded with a series of actionable steps aimed at fostering closer ties within our community, including planning inter-generational events and expanding our support network. We are committed to creating a more inclusive, supportive, and united LGBTQ+ family that transcends generations.
Through open dialogue and shared experiences, the Aging with Pride discussion reaffirmed our belief that community is our strongest asset. As we move forward, let's carry these insights with us, embracing both the wisdom of our elders and the fresh perspectives of younger members. Together, we can build a more inclusive, understanding, and resilient community.
Parenting with Pride is a monthly group for parents/caregivers and their LGBTQ+ youth to gather for community and education in a safe and affirming space. This group welcomes parents/caregivers to bring their youth with them, leaving them to interact with the other youth in the group. Parents/caregivers will be in another room, sharing stories and experiences while gaining education and awareness. No registration is required.
Broadway’s hunky gay ex-Mormon dad Claybourne Elder (Company, Sunday in the Park with George, Bonnie and Clyde, and HBO’s The Gilded Age) brings his sold-out touring concert to the Capital District for a very special night only show that show that is hilarious, heartfelt and surprisingly filthy.
The Ballroom 101 event will start with an introduction to the host and a presentation which will provide an overview of ballroom history & culture, followed by the viewing of Ballroom media selected by the host: Paris is Burning and Kiki.
After the documentary films, participants will be able to ask the host any questions or inquiries they may have. The event will then end with a vogue workshop, where participants who are comfortable doing so, will learn a low impact choreography from the host, Marine, who is currently hosting their own Vogue Basics 101 group at The Albany Damien Center.
Did you know The Pride Center offers FREE mental health counseling and case management? Provided by LGBTQ+-affirming staff and interns, these essential services are open to all LGBTQ+ folks and allies, ages 10 and up.
Click HERE to find out more and make an appointment.
LGBTQ+ resources are not always easy to find in the Capital Region. Making sure that you are provided with safe, competent, and affirming services is something we strive for at The Pride Center. Do you have a physician you love? How about a business that always feels affirming or safe? Please share your LGBTQ+ affirming resources with us HERE!
We encourage our fellow community service providers to print copies of the monthly newsletter and calendar to make available at resource tables and bookstands in their space.
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